#Negative nancy positive patty full#

Just try it, give it some time and I promise you'll notice a difference. So heres to being a more Positive Patty instead of a Negative Nancy. By seeking the positive and removing the negative, you're removing toxicity. The picture shows how I woke up this morning, lol sleepy boys. These times should be cherished not looked down upon like it is a burden, they are so far from that. Is it awkward for me to sleep after this, absolutely! But do I adore it, YES! For this reason every time I start to complain about it, I give myself a mental smack to snap out of it. Almost every morning he sneaks into our room and curls up at the end of the bed, just because he wants to be where we are (his words).

I only have a short time left of my kiddo snuggles before he decides that he is too big for it, I mean who knows what being in first grade and turning 7 will bring, lol. This morning I was reminded of why I am trying to be so positive. We decided to start this blog, partly just as an exercise for ourselves- to write. Not only does a Negative Nancy bring everyone down, but most of the time, they are choosing to focus on the negative and just need a change in perspective. It seriously made me seem like one of those people that no one wants to be around because of they are just brought down in my presence. Positive Patty At one time or another, we have all been a Negative Nancy or been around a Negative Nancy. With that being said, I have noticed that prior there had been so many times that I was very outspoken about my negativity with life, or my kiddo, my hubby,or how bad the world is becomming, etc. Not only for my mental health but for my family. This is now, I need to live in the present and stop dwelling on what might have been or what could happen and just be. It is very well possible for one to alter one’s perspective. Many believe that it is not humanly possible, to alter their perspective. Don’t get me wrong I had valid reasons from my past to make me this way, but all of that happened in the PAST. Turning Negative Nancies Into Positive Patties Febru/ ivytechcc By: Roberta Victery Every person who walks this Earth has his or her own perspective. Relationships suffered, jobs suffered, my anxiety was outrageous, the list goes on. This is hard for me because my ENTIRE life so far I have been such a negative nancy that it was seriously starting to weigh on me. Of course, when someone hurts you to your core and subsequently doesn’t allow you to be your beautiful unique self, I too would (try to) avoid such a person.Recently I have been trying really hard to be a positve person. Help you reconsider and/or form your own ideas, or even confirm your feelings about a person and thus give you more clarity.

#Negative nancy positive patty full#

Ignoring life is finite and we humans have limitations, is setting yourself up for a life full of frustration.įor instance, a disagreement can be very constructive. In addition, it is impossible to be constantly positive we just are not happy campers all the time. Or you are afraid to fail, maybe even afraid of life itself. Avoiding to live truly authentic by only focusing on the positives, I believe you try to avoid confrontations. Which brings me back to positive psychology.

However, encircling yourself with people who are positive all the time and live day-by-day is in my opinion not a healthy way of authentic living. The meaning gets so broad that it’s going to stop having the same power to make a particular critique, she said, pointing to examples like basic, hot mess and Negative Nancy that faded from. It is in our nature to thrive better surrounded by other living creatures.

That does not mean, we should be so independent (autonomous) to a point we distance ourselves from being fully interconnected with the world around us.